1. “Let’s Have a Meeting” Is Not a Solution
In many workplaces, when something feels unclear or uncomfortable, people quickly say:
Let’s have a meeting.
Please prepare materials by tomorrow.
Let’s invite everyone involved.
At first glance, this looks productive.
A meeting appears on the calendar.
Participants are invited.
Someone is asked to prepare documents.
External people may also join because the time has been scheduled.
But one crucial thing may be missing:
What is this meeting supposed to solve?
Without that, a meeting is not a solution.
It is only the appearance of progress.
A meeting is not magic.
It only works when the purpose, decision-maker, materials, and completion criteria are clear.
Scheduling a meeting without a purpose is like holding a knife and assuming dinner is ready.
2. Calendar-First Meetings Are Dangerous
The danger begins when the calendar comes before the purpose.
A common pattern looks like this:
- Someone says, “Let’s have a meeting.”
- A meeting is scheduled.
- Internal and external participants are invited.
- The day before or the day of the meeting, people start asking about materials.
- No one knows what should be prepared.
- Someone creates something anyway.
- The material is reviewed and rejected as “not the point.”
- The person who tried to help gets burned out.
The problem is not that the worker lacked ability.
The problem is that the success condition was never defined.
People gather because the calendar says so.
But the meeting has no real content.
What should be decided?
Who will decide?
What should the materials show?
What does “done” mean?
If those things are unclear, the meeting is only an empty container.
3. “Prepare Materials” Does Not Work Without a Purpose
Documents are not just collections of information.
A good document helps someone understand something and make a decision.
That means a document request needs at least these details:
- Who will read it?
- What should they understand?
- What decision should they make?
- How much detail is enough?
- What counts as complete?
Without these details, the person preparing the document can only guess.
And guessed materials often lead to comments like:
That is not what I meant.
The purpose is different.
Please revise it.
Can you change the direction?
This is painful because the person did not fail to work hard.
They worked hard without a visible target.
It is like being asked to run without a finish line.
4. Purpose-Less Meetings Burn the Most Responsible People
Unclear meetings often hurt responsible people the most.
People who do the bare minimum may not suffer as much.
But people who care, think seriously, and try to meet expectations will attempt to create something even when the goal is unclear.
Then this happens:
- They do not know what to make.
- The deadline is approaching.
- Participants have already been invited.
- They do not want to waste other people’s time.
- They work late.
- Then they are told, “That is not what we needed.”
This is a burnout structure.
The casual phrase “Let’s have a meeting” can create hours of invisible labor for someone else.
A meeting without a defined purpose often consumes the goodwill of serious people.
5. Meetings Can Become Outsourced Anxiety
Purpose-less meetings often happen because someone feels uneasy but has not clarified the issue.
Before calling a meeting, the requester should think through:
- What is the problem?
- What needs to be decided?
- What is unclear?
- Who should decide?
- What materials are needed?
But instead, they say:
Let’s have a meeting.
In other words:
I have not organized my thoughts, so I want everyone else to gather and help me feel better.
Of course, some meetings are genuinely needed to explore uncertainty.
But even then, the question must be clear.
A meeting without a question is not a meeting.
It is a ritual for calming anxiety.
People may feel that progress was made because they gathered and talked.
But nothing was decided, and someone leaves with more work.
6. Gathering Because It Is Time Is Not a Meeting
When people gather only because the calendar says so, that is not necessarily a meeting.
A real meeting starts with a purpose, not with a time slot.
Time is only a container.
Purpose is the reason the container exists.
Without purpose, meetings become:
- unclear for participants
- hard to prepare for
- scattered in discussion
- unable to produce decisions
- likely to create another meeting
That is not progress.
That is calendar reproduction.
7. Five Things to Clarify Before Scheduling a Meeting
Before scheduling a meeting, clarify these five things.
1. What is the purpose?
Examples:
- Decide a direction
- Align understanding
- Identify issues
- Get approval
- Decide owners and deadlines
Do not meet just to “talk.”
Know what the conversation is supposed to achieve.
2. What must be decided for the meeting to end?
Examples:
- Choose option A or B
- Decide owner and deadline
- Identify up to three open questions
- Define next actions
Without an end condition, the meeting only stops because time runs out.
3. Who is the decision-maker?
If the decision-maker is not present, the meeting cannot decide.
It may still be useful for sharing information, but then it is not a decision-making meeting.
4. What materials are needed?
Possible materials include:
- current data
- comparison tables
- issue lists
- options
- pros and cons
- cost
- schedule
- risks
The goal is not to create documents for their own sake.
The goal is to provide the materials needed for a decision.
5. Why does this need to be a meeting?
Some tasks do not require meetings.
- Sharing can be done by email.
- Simple confirmation can be done by chat.
- Approval can be done through a form.
- Feedback can be collected asynchronously.
Meetings are expensive because they occupy multiple people’s time at once.
Use them only when synchronous discussion is truly needed.
8. Useful Phrases for Stopping Unclear Meetings
If someone asks for a meeting or document without a clear purpose, do not start working immediately.
Ask first.
When asked to join a meeting
I can join the meeting.
Before that, could you clarify the goal?
What are we trying to decide in this meeting?
When asked to prepare materials
Before I start preparing the materials, could I confirm the purpose?
Who will read this, and what decision should it support?
When the purpose is unclear
At the moment, the expected output is not clear to me.
Could we first confirm the purpose, audience, and decision point?
Before inviting external participants
Since external participants will join, I would like to confirm the purpose, decision points, and materials in advance.
This is not resistance.
It is process hygiene.
9. A Simple Meeting Request Template
Before scheduling a meeting, the requester should be able to fill this out:
Purpose:
Why are we meeting?
Decision:
What should be decided?
Decision-maker:
Who has final authority?
Participants:
Who needs to attend and why?
Pre-read materials:
What should people read or prepare beforehand?
Completion criteria:
What state should we reach by the end?
Why a meeting:
Why can’t this be handled by email or chat?
If this cannot be filled out, it may be too early to schedule the meeting.
A meeting is not a substitute for thinking.
It is a place to bring prepared thoughts together and make decisions.
10. Conclusion: A Meeting Is a Tool, Not a Goal
Do not turn meetings into goals.
“Let’s have a meeting” is not a solution.
“Please prepare materials” does not work without a purpose.
“The meeting is scheduled” does not mean the work has moved forward.
The correct order is:
- Define the problem.
- Define what needs to be decided.
- Identify the decision-maker.
- Identify the required materials.
- Decide whether a meeting is necessary.
- Schedule the meeting if needed.
- Prepare materials if needed.
When this order is reversed, people end up in purpose-less meetings, creating unclear materials, receiving late revisions, and burning out.
In one sentence:
A meeting is not the goal. A meeting without a purpose is a burnout event pretending to be progress.
Before scheduling a meeting, place the purpose first.
Before asking for materials, define the decision.
Before inviting people, explain why they are needed.
That alone can prevent a surprising amount of wasted effort.
